Susan Shearer Youngwrites: Make a pact with yourself that you’re not going to just try to spend some time each day focused on something about your life that you love, but that you ARE going to focus on that thing that gives you no troublefor a few minutes each day.
And, of course, that whenever you catch yourself asking where is it, why hasn’t it happened yet, you’re going to gently let that thought go, reminding yourself that you’ve already taken care of it. It’s on its way to you and you’re not going to think about it right now.-- Susan Shearer Young
"...By focusing on those positive aspects, you’ll begin to attract only the best parts of that person in your life. The crazy making behavior will show up for someone else perhaps, but not you. It’s the best thing you can do for yourself and honors your commitment to making feeling good your highest priority. It’s also the best thing you can do for them and causes them to rise to the occasion when they’re with you.
When you are in alignment and focusing on their best characteristics, you’re operating as a laser beam for them, attracting their highest and best self. One thing that can work amazingly well when you’ve gotten into the habit of focusing on the negative aspects of an important person in your life, is to create a default laundry list of some of the wonderful things about them or things they’ve done in the past that make you remember your love for them."
--by author of How to Allow,Susan Shearer Young, via here Enter to win the book:click here. Contest ends tonight at midnight EST....!